Friday, May 28, 2010

Reluctant Beaver

Taran is no homework enthusiast.

When it comes to it, Taran would rather eat his pencil than write with it.

These were once whole, sharp, colorful, eraser attached pencils.

He can go through three a night.

Next year he even does his math in pen.

Thursday, May 27, 2010

The Rule

My friend Reuben’s comments on the last Martin Quote make me feel compelled to share that while the Martins are all about feminism, equal rights, and living out our individual destinies, we (or I should say “I” as David has no part in this) do have one directive concerning our children’s future.

That’s not to say that each of our children won’t have the opportunity to go to college. Honestly, we fully expect higher education from them. I figure with all the talk of syllabuses, abstracts, and Advanced Social Learning Theory on Developmental Cognition (okay, I made that one up, but it sounds like something David may casually mention during dinner), that’s bantered in our home daily, they won’t be able to avoid it. College will be nothing more than the family business. Our kids will have to struggle to prevent the privilege of academia. And we expect that they will likely pay for the privilege, just as David and I did… and are still doing. But none of them will be compelled to go. We’d be just as pleased with a “window washer” as we would with an “inventor” or “artist.”

Not only are they being prepared for school and employ, but every one of the Martin offspring is being prepared for marriage. They are learning to keep their rooms clean, put away their clothes, save their pennies, wash and groom themselves, and in general, work hard. I have been coming down on my boys particularly hard on this one. There are several reasons for this. First, I feel compelled to make good husbands so that my daughter-in-laws will love me. I feel no such affinity to my sons-in-law; they’d just better be wonderful! Second, since I feel that my brothers got away with murder, my sons must pay for the crimes of their uncles (but don’t you worry about my brothers; their wives are making them pay now).

But mainly, because talking about marriage with my boys is so fun while talking about it with Emma just makes me sad. For Emma, who is reluctantly growing into a lady, marriage is a topic she talks about wisely and seriously: Maybe she doesn’t want get married. Maybe she does. But not until she’s done this. Or that. I might as well be discussing it with a grad student. It’s all too real with her. Also, upon terrified reflection, if she makes the same crazy choice I did, she’ll be engaged in 8 years! Like an ostrich with its head in the sand, I avoid this thought.

But my boys, for them and me, marriage is as realistic as a day trip to Euro-Disney. Calvin plans to marry me when he becomes a daddy. Enoch promises to get married and have kids but will NEVER kiss his wife because that’s disgusting. And Taran just gets a dreamy, far off look any time nuptials are conjured. If I press him for what he wants in a wife, he blushes. And should I specifically mention a curly haired, blue eyed spitfire from Fargo, he scrunches his neck into his collar bone, looks down to smile, and stomps off, angry that I know his secret.

But with all the preparing and talking about the future, with all the offers and suggestions that I give, there is really only one rule:

I get plus one grandchildren.

That means six. I don’t care how and who does it. One of my five children and his/her spouse can produce all six, or they can somehow divvy the progeny amongst them. However you slice it, I get a return investment of plus one.

My children know this. They understand that their childhood comes with a price. They know that should they, with their careful and loving upbringing, fail me in this one request, I will disown them.

I have plainly informed them that all the time and money I would have lavished on them, my children and six grandchildren, in my waning years will be rescinded and go to ME! Emma, Taran, Enoch, Calvin, and Willa have been made aware that if I cannot spend my retirement years spoiling their babies’ dinners with junk food and rotting their brains with moving pictures, then I will spend it on sad and lonely trips to Machu Pichu or forlornly kayaking the coasts of springtime Alaska or wandering destroyed down the halls of the Lourve. Of course, should I be blessed with anywhere from 1 to 5 grandchildren they can join me in my quests for happiness in Babylon’s “treasures,” but their mommies and daddies won’t be invited.

That’s the one rule.

Sunday, May 23, 2010

Martin Quote

[At dinner, discussing our futures.]

Taran: I have to go to college because I want to be an inventor.

Mommy: And Emma will need to go to school because she wants to be an artist.

Emma: Or a mom. Or an author.

Enoch: I want to be a window washer.

Martin Quote

Taran and I were discussing shirt sizes while looking for a church shirt to fit him when he noticed that although there is an Extra-Small and an Extra-Large, even an XXL there is no X-Medium. So we started inventing missing sizes.
Taran: Mega-Mega Small is for atoms. They tie their bow ties and are ready for atom church.

Wednesday, May 12, 2010

Martin Quote

Calvin [immediately after family prayers]: Enoch didn't have his arms folded! I saw him with my eyes closed.

Friday, May 7, 2010

Resting on my Laurels

I don't feel like blogging. Call it Spring, call it lazy, call it life, anyway you call it the result is the same. Nothing new to tell. Sometimes our life is just boring. I consider that good. Boring means I don't have to clean, or cook, or drive, or scold, or entertain. It means my kids are taking care of themselves.

But I feel obligated to keep my mother, David's mother, and all other loving friends and family, informed of our well being. Also our doings must be documented.

So here you have what we did in the winter when my children needed manufactured doings. Fortunately, we found a cartoon called Avatar the Last Airbender. It's a Nickelodeon show that has an end, kind of like a very long miniseries for kids. It was fun enough that David and I watched it too.

As we neared the end of the series, we felt that we needed to go out in style. So on a SCHOOL NIGHT we had an Airbender party.
We made Airbender cookies that represent the four kingdoms or Earth, Wind, Water and Fire.

And ate Airbender food, which we guessed was like stir fry.

Then we watched the last episode and cheered and laughed and felt silly that we got so into a children's television show (well only some of us felt that way).

See? We do stuff.